I don't know why people assume you're jealous of everything you hate:
I hate spiders. That doesn’t mean I’m jealous… They have 8 legs and eat flies.
“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’/ They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” —John Lennon